Most incel problems could be sorted out by putting in minimal effort into looking better and having more positive interactions with women, but that's none of our business. The "sapio" part comes from the Latin word "sapiens," which means "mind. Sidebarring is something most of us will be guilty of.
A non-binary person may identify as neither male or female, or both male and female, or as a traditional gender to their culture such as two-spirited or third gender. Timing is huge, here. It's an annoying and generally poorly-received way of bypassing a left-swipe, and women in particular get fatigued by the messages that pile up in their "Other" folder when they link their Instagram account to their Tinder profile. A demisexual is a person whose sex drive is tied not to an immediate visual or physical attraction but to people's personalities once they've gotten to know them. It occurs when the person you're dating doesn't introduce you to their friends or family, and doesn't post about you on social media.