And if she sees you with one hotty one day and a different hotty the next day, all the better. Is it possible that she really is into you but can't handle a relationship?
The second meet up which is our last meet up before he flies off for a month, I realised I have a crush on him already but my feelings are left unknown. You have the right to be true to your own feelings, as well as saying no to her romantic advances. It's important to remember that, no matter how nicely you may tell him that you just want to be friends, you have no control over his reaction. If she was into you, none of that would matter.