But on a first date, where chemistry and at least a little mutual interest has already been established, we like it a lot more than all of that crappy, heartbreaking game-playing. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say?
As the author says: Share your background, thoughts, and philosophies honestly. Truly listen to her response and let the conversation go from there. Sexual incompatibility is one of the main culprits behind both infidelity and breakups.