The problem a lot of women and men have is first of all they refuse to accept that there are some "gender differences" when it comes to how each approaches dating, relationships, and their timing for marriage. Mention if you are already committed. Who knows, they could possibly even become endearing traits that you miss when the person is away for an extended period of time.
Granted she'll have a "nice guy" in her "friend zone" to cry on his shoulder and tell him about how much of a jerk or a-hole her man is. To many guys, it seems a little unfair that they do all the heavy lifting and women get away with everything. It's usually a time of "No girls allowed". To that, I present some new dating rules for the women out there, which require a little more effort than just showing up. Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary.