At Intimate City in Hangzhou, Dr. They call these women " Sheng nu " in China, leftover women. One of the eight course participants has succeeded in getting a vague agreement for a date for that evening, but the others are going away empty-handed. A Proper Date Just like the old days, a date that starts with a dinner to get to know your potential partner. She says it was a "battle" for him to recognize it. While Ren waits for results at Starbucks, love scouts run after attractive passersby in the shopping quarter. When the lights went out and the movie started, they kissed.