Just Let Things Be. Or eat artisan cheeses and crackers from whole foods. It seems like a pretty unfair trade.
Nothing terrifies me more than being so close to someone and then watching them become a stranger again. You are commenting using your WordPress. My dad was always paranoid that it was going to happen in middle school with algebra. Maybe if all the Wendys would read enough from other Wendys, they might not fall so deeply into this trap. Do keep that in mind. In relationship terms, it can be harsh to come to the realization that the man you thought you were dating is really an avoidant, simpering man-child who refuses to get his shit together.