We clicked the first time we hung out, and I've never had a lousy time with him. Perhaps he had never really allowed himself to envision what it would be like to be with you over the long-term in this relationship, but now he is. We don't like uncertainty, so anecdotally speaking we're harsh on the relationship because we don't understand it — even though it may be a beautiful love.
Plenty of TV shows and movies feature fat or slobby men with supermodel wives. From your mood at the time to the color someone's wearing, "a lot of attractiveness is contextual and not set in stone," Lewandowski said. While there's nothing inherently at issue in "mismatched" relationships, problems can arise if one person believes their partner is more attractive. Personality matters — and it eventually makes the attractiveness less powerful. Perhaps he feels that he has never truly expressed how he really feels about you all the while that you have both been in this relationship. It also means being held to certain standards, as Chloe Sexton wrote for XoJane in